Several weeks ago I was reading from the One Year Reading Plan when I came across 1 Corinthians 6. The Apostle Paul is writing about how some of the Christians at Corinth had disputes with each other and had brought those disputes to secular courts for judgment. Paul criticizes them for their inability to resolve their differences on their own.

But then Paul takes the topic to a deeper level. He says in verses 7-8,

“Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers.”

And then week ago Pastor Phil spoke about forgiving those who have hurt you and caused you pain. It was a great message. One of those where you nod your head and think, “yeah, I need to forgive those horrible, evil, arogant people who have wronged me. They’re so bad for treating poor, innocent me that way (#sarcasm).”

Then came the proverbial “kick in the teeth”.

Pastor Phil closed the message out by encouraging us to not only forgive, but then to also pray that those who have wronged us would experience blessing.


Then this past week, Mark Batterson wrote on his blog about bitterness and how to overcome:

I honestly believe that prayer is the only antidote to anger, bitterness, and unforgiveness. You can’t just forgive. You’ve got to pray for that person. Why? Because it will change your heart. You’ll find that a supernatural love for that person disarms your anger. Forgiveness will set your free. And prayer is the key.

Um, anyone else see a reoccuring theme here?

Yeah…I think I have some praying to do….

Author: Erik

Erik lives in Bethalto, IL were he serves as the Executive Pastor at Cornerstone Church. He and his wife, Bethany, have two boys (Parker and Kent). He's an Apple fan and all around techie who loves Angry Birds and Words With Friends.

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  1. WOW. Yeah. Me too Erik. I was wronged so bad I don’t even want to see this person. I guess I can try and pray for them.

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  2. Awesome!!! Like button on this one!!!

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  3. Malcolm, I hear you. I’m not quite there yet, but I’m trying. I actually thought I was over some of my anger until I tried to pray for the person. That’s when I realized I’ve got a ways to go still.

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  4. I can totally relate. I find it overwhelming that Jesus was able to pray for those who not just hurt him at some point in the past, but He was praying on their behalf for God to forgive them while they were in the process of brutally killing him. I am left with no excuses. I need his mercy. Thanks, Erik.

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